Relationship with Adequately Close Distance Korea Essays

-Book Introduction

“A proper distance is necessary in a relationship so as not to be intimidated by people.” A writer who knows my heart perfectly 『I am not lazy, I am charging』 The second essay of Dancing Snail + About ‘relationship detox’, taking it off, emptying it, keeping your distance, and keeping your heart

In 2019, Dancing Snail, a writer who won storm sympathy and favorable reviews from readers through "I'm not lazy, I'm charging", which contains a record of overcoming lethargy for a long time, returns with a new work. If the first book dealt with how to recharge the mind to overcome the life slump of the author, who is a 'homebody' to the bone, this book takes out another identity called 'human relationship minimalist' and provides 'relationship detox' for those who are tired of relationships. '.

"A moderately close relationship" is a book for those who are experiencing the so-called 'gwantaegi (relationship + boredom)', tired of unnecessary emotions and the numerous relationships surrounding them. A person lives in constant relationship with someone. However, since the relationship energy that an individual can handle is limited, there is no choice but to come a day when they are involved in various relationships. Just as you soothe your stomach with mild food when you get sick, you should empty your mind and soothe yourself when you get sick with people. It's time to desperately need a human relationship detox.

Even in a relationship, we need ‘property’ to relieve, empty, and distance ourselves. If you're too close, it's hard, if you're too far away, you'll be lonely. If the room in your heart is full or if you are hungry for a 'real' relationship, if you want a suitable distance that is neither close nor far, it is time to open this book. Let's look back on our current relationship through the 'Technology of Moderation' delivered by Dancing Snail, reduce the relationship that needs to be eliminated, and put our mind first. Relationship detox to create a healthy relationship that I want and choose is never difficult.

-Index

prologue

[Part 1 neither too close nor too far] invasion of the world ‘Is it so’ and ‘No’ human relations minimalist If it's hard, show off that it's hard How to Beat Cool Sickness and Become a Well-mannered Member of Society Let's just get closer can you fit me Freedom to be neither ‘in-house’ nor ‘sass’ You're like a sylphine who's nowhere to be found The trivial reason why love ends right to forget to someone I won't see again club for the needy hunger of mind Alumni meeting at a wedding Opportunity cost of excitement I like it the way it is now Why do you slowly close your heart There is no parting because of love people who love you so much pass the bad time I'm afraid you'll find out that I'm not always bright “The Good Guys” and “The Bad Guys”

[Part 2 It's okay if you don't get along with everyone] Don't be the Eul in your relationship with the world If I'm uncomfortable, I'm uncomfortable. Comfort without comparison and congratulations without anxiety An eye for an eye, a man for a man Between tranquility and passion It's okay if you're not cool To you who are worried because you have a lot of worries If it doesn't go your way, as you like Dry consolation rather than unreasonable forgiveness All my feelings are always right each person's memories Trust in relationships, don't trust people I'm lonely but I don't want to date 'Cause you can always make a better choice I decided not to think deeply about the person who hurt me The only person who can hug me unconditionally is myself Even if I don't get along with everyone, I'm a good enough person single congratulations What manpower can't do is people's hearts heart vault It's okay if you're not whole by yourself If you can get along well alone

[Part 3 People Always Need People] There's an invisible line between you and me not close relationship space in the heart between alone and together There is no one who can not be without if someone likes When excitement isn't enough When will the relationship come? Even if I pour out my heart at least once I decided not to dwell too much on the years we spent together. What is friendship People always need people step by step in each other's lives Something that doesn't fade with time Stop using relationships as tools for happiness Things like the taste of food or the smell of the wind really the same as me How many things are more important than rice? Lightening the weight of meaningless connections Short but not light sincerity Expanding each other's world Someone to share a piece of broken heart with